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that's it!

topic posted Wed, December 27, 2006 - 5:39 PM by  feralkittycat
i am DONE with the bullshit... D.O.N.E.

i'm not putting up with any more crap and i'm starting today...

today is the first day of the rest of my life...

the next boy who gets involved with me and hands me a bunch of existential bullshit about committment not being possible because "we are all really alone in life and there's no reason to get attached" is going to get kicked in the balls so hard he will be trying to pull them out of his lower abdomen for weeks...

guess what? i don't want to be your "good time"... i don't want to be what you do to get over whoever you were last with... if you don't really and truly want to be with me (YES, WITH ME!) THEN YOU CAN FUCK OFF...

no more assholes... i'm going to be picky this time... certain things i will allow wiggle room on but the main shit - you gotta tow the line or your ass is history...

i'm not gonna be anybody's fucking chewtoy, piece on the side, "friend", bootycall or any other such bullshit... treat me right and you will live like a king - you will be worshipped and adored and drowning in baked goods... you will get blowjobs that will be so good you will weep from it... you won't have to spend barely any money on me - i'm happy smoking weed and eating del taco... but if you fuck up, if you are a dickhead or try to push me around or lie to me then i will cut you out of my life so fucking fast it will make your head spin...


ok i just felt the need to say it all out loud...

thank you for listening, bitches, keep raging...


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  • Re: that's it!

    Wed, December 27, 2006 - 6:45 PM
    Get it out, girl! The first step in making changes is making proclamations of change! Now, we can all hold you to it! ;)

    And I feel you. You're right, you do have to be firm. No wishy washy bullshit. Dick is great, but if you want more than just that, you can't settle. Believe me, I know. I made a serious and deliberate effort to not have any casual sex in 2006 because I was sick of all the bullshit. 2005 was all about the meaningless hook-ups and I knew it. I wasn't in any place to be having a relationship, though. But once I knew I wanted something of more substance and was in a good place, I stopped seeing people. I didn't sleep with anyone until after I met my boyfriend who I've been with now for ten months. I was still aprehensive going into it, but he was well worth the wait. I'm here to tell you, stick to your guns. You will get what you want if you refuse to accept anything else. It just works out that way. It may take awhile, but it's better than dealing with a parade of assholes in the meantime...

    Good luck! And know you've always got a place to rant amongst the bitches.
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    • Ms.D...
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      Re: that's it!

      Thu, December 28, 2006 - 10:27 PM
      FeralKittyCat, the part of your rant about smoking weed and eating del taco made me feel all warm and tingly! I am glad to be here amongst the bitches, and so SO hear your sentiment.

      Here is MY rant....
      Hey there Mr. Wonderful. I appreciate the fact that you have a life lesson or two to learn, and want to try and learn it by having as many lovers as you can...Great! Power to you! Just leave me out of it. I value my health, both physical and emotional, and my sanity. You are not good for any of these things. I am holding out for someone who makes love like a dream, enjoys great music and pop culture, kisses me till I feel faint, purrs when I pet him, will come and pick me up at the airport, sit with me when I am blue, and loves to be massaged and plied with fantastic espresso drinks...and OH YEAH...is not married, affianced, seeing someone,swinging, having an open relationship, or otherwise unavailable.
      We have the world to offer, and it is a tough lesson sometimes to learn hold out for what your heart truly desires...not to mention what the rest of our body desires, too.
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  • fera...
    feralkittycat
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    Re: that's it!

    Fri, December 29, 2006 - 11:39 AM
    i know this might disqualify me as a raging bitch but...
    holding out for a good one is hard when you are a tremendous lovejunkie like me...

    i need to kill the lovejunkie in me and make the raging bitch stronger...

    any ideas, bitches????
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    • Re: that's it!

      Fri, December 29, 2006 - 11:49 AM
      If you're not getting love but keep coming back, that's not what you're addicted to. If it's sex and companionship, that's fine. Just don't expect much in return. If that doesn't work, don't give it up so easily. I don't know what to tell you. I had completely given up on relationships when my man came along so it's hard to give advice. I just operated under the pretense that no one was good enough for me and treated them as such.
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    • Wick...
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      Re: that's it!

      Fri, December 29, 2006 - 1:11 PM
      "The Rules" book. It seems incredibly lame and old-fashioned when you read it, but the message is that apparently men will value a soggy glove in a glass case out of their reach more than a diamond they find on the ground. Go figure. Bad metaphor, but you get what I mean.

      Other recommended reading: "Getting in Touch with your Inner Bitch" - Elizabeth Hilts, and "Female Problems - An Unhelpful Guide" - Nicole Hollander. Maybe also "The Art of War" - Sun-Tzu and "The Prince" - Machiavelli. Also that "He's Just Not That Into You".

      It is extremely important to have a source of love from other sources than a romantic relationship. You know how loving pets are already, so I can't recommend getting a dog. But you know what I mean. Have friends you can rely on for support.

      Trust and love are earned, not to be given lightly.
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  • Mandy
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    Re: that's it!

    Fri, December 29, 2006 - 1:02 PM
    I totally feel you on this too!!

    For me 2006 was full of meaningless hookups and "fuck buddies" which I enjoyed at first, but ended up wanting more.

    So for me 2007 - no more one night stands, or bootycalls!! I'm worth so much more, and right now I want more than that.

    I too, am a hellofvah catch - and can be the most giving, adventurous, passionate partner - I just would like someone to realize that!!

    Infact - now ladies tell me if this is not fucked up:

    I'm seeing this guy, that I slept with last year for like 3 months we were "friends with benefits" but then it got to be just benefits, and I was getting irritated, feeling wasn't even being treated with the dignity of a friend. So I pulled the plug.

    We recently started seeing eachother again. And at first he'll be very nice, complementary, loving, kind sweet all of that. Then it's like after we sleep together - it like boosts his confidence - so much so he has the renewed sense of himself, so he goes out and firts and has dates with girls he otherwise might not approach. All because he thinks he's really cool because he slept with me!! I don't get it. He's obviously totally using me, then comes crawling back when he needs another boost of confidence!!

    AAAH - I keep hoping he'll just be happy with how good I make him feel and want to see me exclusivley, but I don't think that's going to happen.

    So 2007 - I'm done with that fucker!!!!

    Thanks for letting me rant, bitches!!!
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    • Re: that's it!

      Fri, December 29, 2006 - 1:48 PM
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      Hee hee!

      And Wicked, that was a BRILLIANT metaphor!


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      • av
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        Re: that's it!

        Fri, December 29, 2006 - 3:03 PM
        hey bitches,
        i was a serial dater(mostly assholes)forever, until i decided that i deserved better.
        i told my lovers if you won't (try to) make me cum everytime we have sex and
        be a co-parent to my kid,it's not happenning.
        sure enough i went through a few selfish bastards who only wanted me to please them,
        and wanted nothing to do with my son.
        but lo and behold,one came along happy to comply with my needs,and it turns out he's unselfish in most ways,not just in bed.....
        so i married him(almost six years ago) and we now have a second son together.
        stick to yer guns,figure out what you want and don't be afraid to demand it!
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      • fera...
        feralkittycat
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        Re: that's it!

        Fri, December 29, 2006 - 4:16 PM
        goddamn do i have a couple of men i would love to kick... really really really really really really REALLY hard... and i mean REALLY HARD...

        i'm smiling just thinking about how good it would feel...

        hmmm....
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        Re: that's it!

        Wed, April 4, 2007 - 12:39 PM
        Now we're getting"

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        They obviously don't know what we BITCHES! are all about!!

        ahahhaha

        (I love the metaphor, as well! Soggy glove, LOOK OUT!)
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        • Mandy
          Mandy
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          Re: that's it!

          Wed, April 4, 2007 - 12:42 PM
          <Argue Without Anger
          Tools for handling confrontation with humor and grace>

          Now where's the fun in that?
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